One: Buy condoms. Buy them and keep them with you at all times, and use them before you are asked to use them. And use them every time. The peace of mind you allow your partner will free her to be vulnerable with you, and that, my son, is exactly what sex is about. Condoms are sexy. In fact, call buying condoms foreplay.– Big Poppa E., “How To Make Love” (via jesusfuckmechrist)
(Footnote: If you are too embarrassed to buy condoms, you are not ready to have sex.)
Two: Kissing is not merely foreplay. Spend entire evenings making out on the couch while fully clothed. Believe me, dry-humping rocks.
Three: Sex is not just about friction. It’s about emotion. Stop trying to find her clitoris and find her heart. Because then she’ll help you find her clitoris.
Four: If you really wanna know how to please a woman, ask her how she masturbates. Then do that. A lot. If she claims she doesn’t masturbate, offer to take her shopping for a vibrator so you can both learn the vocabulary of her body together.
Five: Don’t put anything in her butthole you wouldn’t want in your own.
(Footnote: Try a pinky finger, it’s kinda awesome.)
Six: When you go down on her—and you will go down on her, and if you are my son, you will be amazing at it—tell her how good she tastes. Stop in the middle and kiss her deeply so she knows how good she tastes. Do the same when she goes down on you.
Seven: A simple Google search will yield 1,327 euphemisms for male masturbation, yet only 23 for female masturbation. If guys spent less time jacking off and more time jilling off, this world would be a happier place.
Eight: Everything you need to know about the importance of the clitoris is in the movie Star Wars. You are Luke Skywalker piloting your penis-shaped X-Wing Fighter deep inside her trench. Remember: seventy percent of all Death Stars cannot be blown up through penetration of the trench alone. It must be through focused contact with that little exhaust port at the top of the trench. Otherwise, any explosions you experience will be merely Hollywood special effects.
Nine: Just because you come doesn’t mean she has, so don’t you dare come before her. Focus completely on your partner. Don’t worry about gettin’ yours, you’re a guy. You always get yours. Your job is to make sure she’s gettin’ hers.
Ten: If sex with your partner lasts no longer than this poem, you are not making love. You are masturbating with her body instead of your hand. Shame on you. Go back to step one. You’ve got a lot of learning to do.
Lupe Fiasco - Dumb It Down
Each of these pictures represent a chapter in my life that I have opened and closed and now I’m starting a new one. I have been through some thangs and I am still able to smile everyday! And this is just within a 3 year period. Every year brings something new! Can’t wait to see what my future holds!
RELEASE US - a short film on police brutality
Published on Oct 28, 2013
500 innocent Americans are murdered by police every year (USDOJ). 5,000 since 9/11, equal to the number of US soldiers lost in Iraq.
In 1994 the US Government passed a law authorizing the Pentagon to donate surplus Cold War era military equipment to local police departments.
In the 20 years since, weaponry designed for use on a foreign battlefield, has been handed over for use on American streets…against American citizens.
The “War on Drugs” and the “War on Terror” replaced the Cold War with billions in funding and dozens of laws geared towards this new “war” against its own citizens.
This militarization of the police force has created what is being called an “epidemic of police brutality” sweeping the nation.
According to the video a black man is killed once every 28 hours by police.
I love this!
Let no voice but your own speak to you from the depths. Let no influence but your own rouse you in time of peace and time of war. Hear all, but attend only to that which concerns you. Your allegiance shall be to your God, your race, your country.– Marcus Garvey (via specialnights)
Be careful Moors, some of your own will put you back into slavery.– Noble Drew Ali (via specialnights)
Love is a crazy thing I would say. When I met up with him again for the first time after 6 + years of not seeing him I was so happy. It wasn’t awkward, it wasn’t strange, it wasn’t weird. I would never tell him this but I swear it was like I was in love all over again. I try to play the roll of me not remembering anything from high school. But I do it on purpose. I do it because I realy did care ALOT for him while we were in school. I used to get picked on because my friends thought he was a lame but I didn’t care to me he was one of my best friends. Even through my relationship with my ex I couldn’t let him go. I thought about him all the time. but I guess I messed that up. I was young I wasn’t ready for commitment. Im still not ready for commitment but I know I would love to be with him. The thing is that he has changed. He has become numb. He acts like all of the other guys I have dealt with. I try and say yeah its just sex but it will never be just sex for me. I have grown to reattached. I go on facebook and try to resist the urge to look at his page. Seeing his wife post. She has no idea. I feel terrible (like I always do) but I continue to do it. I do it because its safe for me. I do it because I am scared to get attached. I am scared of getting hurt so I intentionally hurt myself. I know that once I leave I will probably not speak to him anymore. I have to do it because I have to distance myself. I love him. I always have loved him. I have always just been to afraid to admit it. But he is in love with someone else. I guess I have to deal with it.
Have we forgotten that we are spiritual beings having a human experience.